Friday, November 19, 2010

How to handle the relationship between students

 Q: teachers, some of our students do not deal with the relationship between the students, often confused because of little things unpleasant, or even a long time
not speak, can you talk to us about how to deal with the relationship between the students ?
A: Of course. the relationship between the students of a relationship. good at handling interpersonal relationships are important
contemporary quality of talent to content. because of modern technology and the growing need for cooperation in social development, coordination and team spirit. by acting alone to
fortune, their careers have become increasingly impossible. good interpersonal properly, is one success, something important condition of
.
student interpersonal relationship is one of the most closely related, is one of the most pure relationships.
because there is no conflict of interest among the students, there is no relationship in the community as many complex factors. Our tradition has always attached importance The relationship between students
. Spring and Autumn period the relationship between Guan and Baoshuya a model known as the relationship between students, so it was deep between the students of Friends
Yi called There's an old saying: Today,
we should treasure the relationship between the students. I'm in the school motto of Frankly, treat people with sincerity, to respect others.
equal relationship between students, in front of their classmates, we can not pride, but also do not have low self-esteem. students should help each other, to help others, but also
willing to accept the help of others. helping others do the required return, especially when other people do not want to return; accepted
help others to sincerely grateful. help each other between the students, mainly learning, often benefits
is not only to help those who help others has also been improved. you explain a difficult problem to others, have deepened the impression of their own, so that their knowledge in this field
grasp more firmly. Bursary communication between the learning is very useful. ancients said: If an apple
, I have an apple, exchange, or only one apple per person; but you have a knowledge, I have a
knowledge exchange, each person will have more knowledge. Why not? life sometimes need to help each other, you
help others in this regard, they might get in other ways to help others. This, your relationships to improve
out. If we can treat each other sincerely, mutual respect and help each other in a class of collective good interpersonal environment to form a
.
between students living with a long and sometimes a little hard to avoid bumps, then must be mutual understanding.
years I understand the friction between the majority of students are unintentional, as long as the party to say be resolved quickly. Even if one particular case is intentional, if not too much, as long as the other performed a large
degree that will not cause any conflicts. a person can exercise tolerance of others, sometimes on the surface seems ate loss, in fact, he maintained a pleasant
mood and good interpersonal relationships, it is the biggest beneficiary. a good relationship in the class
students, not that he did not happen to anyone through friction, but he promptly resolve the various conflicts. On the contrary,UGG bailey button, some students
withdrawn, self-enclosed, do not communicate with people more willing to help others, regarding the present, is always an individual as the center for the benefit of
benefits radius circle, with occasional exchanges of people, but also everywhere care about, which makes interpersonal tensions, and he felt so depressed
, boring life, learning, activities could not get the spirit of doing so advantages and disadvantages, is not very worthy of reflection you?
on the current relationship is not good students, in addition to the reason mentioned above, the I have the following suggestions:
First, the relationship between students as a kind of fate. more than 60 million people worldwide, 1.2 billion people in China, we just gather dozens of students in a class-phase
learning, life, it is hard to come by. should cherish this fate. We come from different places After three years
turn to all directions. Life is short and hard to find Concert, students relations are handled properly, so what is the future of
handle complex social relations? how about career success? < br> Secondly, to improve their relationships from the start. interpersonal well,UGG boots, mostly caused by personal reasons.
to see what their thoughts, words and deeds, habits affect interpersonal relationships, and consciously change themselves. to change their not completely given up since the
own personality, but can not require people to have to adapt themselves. improve relationships is not engaged in unprincipled Harmony,UGG boots clearance, but not the negative phenomena
laissez-faire attitude, doing the nice guy but from the desire for unity, in good faith to express their views,UGG boots cheap, and
people communicate with each other to reach a consensus, to promote unity and common purpose and progress.

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